Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. The point of a date is to get to know someone better. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush. Today was my birhtday and my husband spent the whole day at work and all night working on his notes. Do you know his work hours, break time during work and where does he take break from work. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her.
Thanks for sharing your story. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee.
He also hints a lot to settling down with me. He totally blew me off and said "blah blah blah" and it was so early in our relationship that I was taken aback and didn't push the issue then and there. So I guess, in this case, all's well that Thanks for posting the update.
He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. Is this a red flag or are we both just being stubborn. We met when I was 19 and have been together only the past 4 years but the love has never died.
