One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy. I was just told that today when I told a friend how lonely it gets being married to a doctor and how I miss having my bestfriend around. I visit him every month, we managed to go on weekend trips when he's off and he's spend all his vacay time with me and his family. Hi I think you are all lucky to marry a Doctor. I am so glad I found this blog. I can see how it would be easy to think wow, I'm not even worth 3 minutes of conversation and I don't want you to feel that way. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. I am about to get into a relationship with a doctor. I work part time from home and am involved in a church fortunately, but I miss my husband.
It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. And you know what. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy.
I don't know how to manage the resentment. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that.
Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. It's been really helpful already. We seem to be one two different planets communication in two different languages. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife.