She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. Life After Mormonism Chat. A lot of people are religious. That is the million dollar question. What a bozza topic. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project.
Jesus might have seemed like a cute, imaginary playmate at first, but on some level I would have been expecting to help her get over it. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. You really don't know how great you have it. I would also say that this is the most stressful point in their lives. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. Do you want to be married in the temple. To just see ourselves as support to our husband's "noble" ambitions.
You will always be second place. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon.
I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. Anybody dating him is going to need to understand that, and that it has to come first. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. Please see above link for full rules. You are a good person and she can see that. Getting Over a Breakup. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. What about the folks at church. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.