This means first being clear that you want to go on a date. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off.
You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. You join the LDS Church. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. Would she want you to attend church with her. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future.
If we can say them together, great; if not. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. While reading the article I could actually picturize my near future.
You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. Am I wrong to hope for this. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. Don't expect this to be like the others.