She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. You just don't want the kids to realize how much you resent him.
If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. Though I am yet to see if we would make it. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist. Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. I do my best, I accepted him knowing the stress on his career, knowing that it isn't easy. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. That's all we're really saying. Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day.
But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. All parent-child relationships do. Make up stories about being a soldier at war or a sailor at sea keeping me away from my love. Don't fall in love with a married man. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. I am the bitch who doesn't understand anything. Many Mormon girls place the cart before the horse. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles.
All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. She is passionate about it. Most of them have affairs. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. We have not been intimate in 6 weeks now. Think about what you want in a relationship. I cried watching Kung fu panda 2. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years.
