And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you.
I pray almost daily that his schedule will get better once we both started working, but I'm constantly concerned that I'll be doing most things alone too. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. She is passionate about it. I get it; I just don't buy into it. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. It's a fair question and you've already been super accommodating.
God be with you all. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. We have a happy marriage. But is it the path that will make you the happiest. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you.
Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. It really can be that simple. Before that, you are encouraged to date, but not exclusively. I suppose it depends on your personality. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. Do you and your girlfriend have any kind of plan for how you're going to manage your relationship while you're both in residency.