Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. Do you think that is too draining too. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. You are too young to deal with this. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. How Soon to Call after a Date. It is an act of faith. I know residency is particularly bad, but what about when he finishes that.
She won't marry you. So it is going to be over anyway. Every aspect of me needs to meet his specifications. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. Give them a hour to de-stress once they get home. He can't just put his shoes on and go. Of course they do. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. Please think carefully before marrying with someone works in medical industry.
And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. My husband was definitely worth the heartache and suffering that I endured but I am grateful that he was able to see that our family was worth a change in lifestyle. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening.
It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. He never has time for me. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness.