I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. Discover the joys of a non-sexual relationship and find sincere ways to show affection without sex. I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. So good to find this I am married to a Dr with 2 young kids. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically.
Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. I have no support in this and so many of the DW have just accepted this life I just cant ,I want more There are so many days I wish I had a normal life and he had a normal job. But at the hospital, I'm helping the other guy who was injured when his car wrecked six hours ago, and I can't just bail. If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. Or get them met elsewhere.
Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you.
But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. If you have children how will they be raised. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. This is not about either of you individually. Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age. Most couples who are married where one is a Mormon and the other isn't, usually stems from a situation where they both were married in the temple, then one of them lost their faith sometime after that. Doctors don't have time for anything really they are overworkedand tired all the times. I dated non mormon men. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things.