Now 13 years later, my son is a teenager. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. It's typical to not hear from him for weeks. Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics.
Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start.
Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. I did in college, and knew I would play 2nd fiddle to the lifelong dream. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember.
Mormons who marry other Mormons in Mormon temples have a 6. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. Let her go right now then. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even. We will not enjoy that huge vacation if it has been a war zone every time you get home. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead.