And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. YOu ladies out there My soon to be fiance is a doctor, he'll be ending his internship in and maybe will do his postgraduate abroad.
Thank you for your sacrifice. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. It is exactly what I needed. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays.
But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. You should also be willing to date other people. Your mids is still young. He is super busy, and is learning all he can about lifesaving methods, and they are killing him at the hospital right now. Thanks for sharing your story. Are the sacrifices you make for your partner worth it, and do you have any tips for making it work. And some will do that.
Toxic is the right word. He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. I've been working like crazy myself, so it is easy for me to understand time issues involved in drs' training. I find myself oscillating between empathy, pity, and rage, but lately, it's been mostly rage. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly.