Please share your dating experience with a doctor or a medical resident. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. I can say this.
That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. All I can do is have Faith in Him. It is exactly what I needed. I cried watching Kung fu panda 2. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles.
My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Do what feels right. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough.
And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects.