I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. Keep in touch, keep it light and understand he is under a lot of pressure right now. He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. If so, you have a chance. If so, you have a chance. Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion.
My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. It doesn't help to know that he is terrible at being alone. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. All these post confirming how doctors cheat all the time on their spouse kills me and my hope in a future with him. The history of racism and violence is upsetting.
Why would you behave any different now. It's like talking to a wall. It really can be that simple. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. Log into your account.
I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. For now, again, don't expect a decade long relationship. Be fruitful and multiply. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. I am trying so hard to be understanding but the time when I could discuss my fears with him are well and truly gone.