My wife is living proof that they CAN be worth it. And to clarify, what I mean by physical demand is something that requires energy I don't have, like having sex or going for a walk. Im not sure whether he isn't ready for it to get any more serious than it is or that he cannot juggle my needs and his duties. I suggest you develop a busy calender so you'll be occupied because you'll get dizzy thinking in circles. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life.
If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee.
Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. After you read the CES letter Im pretty sure you will be grossed out by mormonism. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. He is not willing to cut back on hours or ever get off of his career track. Be a good influence. However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. No lie he was one of the kindest human beings I've metbut I was afraid of getting deeper into the relationship, so I ended it.
We moved city over 6 months ago which was in the best interests of her career as well as mine. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. Good luck to you. Though my mother never openly complained about this, I could see it in her eyes. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. Trust me, though--you will. I ask myself that every day.