Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. By the way the dog is a corgie. I am also going thru the same thing.
There was a decrease in pay but an increase in our quality of life already. They get hazed, they get questioned all the time, they don't get sleep, they have people's lives in their hands and have to struggle to be confident in what they know, but not too egotistical to kill someone Give him the benefit of the doubt and some space. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours.
Wow just found this blog and for the first time am in mid's feel some support as an MD's wife of 30 years who is socially isolated he has very few friendsgetting despondent, bitter and resentful due to having some expectations which are met with constant disappointment. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. In order for him to survive his residency much less thrive in itthe hospital has to come first, he has to come second, and I come in at third place. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free.
He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. I feel for you. They are just really convinced they are right.