Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. Best of luck, and God bless.
It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. I constantly have to reprioritize my kid, work, other activities. Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect. Once last piece of advice to you girls who are "dating" or "engaged to" a doc: Don't confuse "dating" and "engaged to" with "married to" - get the ring on your finger and seal the deal. Did U have sex with her yet. He too goes to the vacation house a lot to take care of the property and the boat on most weekends he is not on call, and it has been something I have been made to accept. I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. She might not realize how important it is to compromise.
My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise.
Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. Or is this pretty standard behavior for a busy person in his position Just a heads up from someone in the medical field, the experience of residency will own them until the end of it. She got engaged 3 months later. Just like having children, you don't know what you have until you live it.