This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. Know her limits on substances. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up.
If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. You I think are ok with that. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. And of course, everyone has a different experience.
And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. Helpful way to learn the facts in a fast and funny format.
While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Men search the world for women that they can stand to be around with long-term. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. I am in my first year of medicine. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle. If you care about him, you'll be super understanding, maybe take lunch to him or dinner to the hospital A quick kiss and a thank you may be all you will be able to get. I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments.