But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Be direct and get your needs met. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. Yes, do sever the relationship. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. I agree with Rachel- this is not what I signed up for.
He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities. In his field he sees some of the worst cases, this week alone: Google know-it-all moms demanding medical marijuana and threatening to sue the province for not having access to pot to treat epilepsy Okay, here is one for you A married male neurologist is married to a pediatric physician. They are an essential part of my existence The part that among all the heartbreak and death and pain of my patients, makes me feel like a human being, worthy of having my own life. Keep me posted, please. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit.
I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. Mormons are very particular about dressing. I wish you the best of luck. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on.
I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. I'm really glad I found this post today. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. Its interesting to read all the doctor wife's comments and experiences.