Does he come home on time after work. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. He just started studying for the boards. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. A shitty sex life, potentially. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. I was so incredibly supportive of him and his career.
I've been in a similar situation before. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. Better navigate the business aspects of medicine and stay on top of the changing healthcare landscape. Should I marry him. It is not something that should be taken lightly. She won't marry you. He has changed so much over the years and is very impatient with the kids.
We try to make this place a little better than we found it. But I do want to be with him. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. All 3 times I talked to a shrink to get an objective opinion. Now a basic overview of the gospel. He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. Wow, so nice to know others feel just like me. You don't want a divorce because it will hurt the kids - they love him and think he's the greatest. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure.
I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard.