Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. Stop trying to make up for all the little things you miss with big short-term things.
My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. Hopefully you two will be on the same page and can be open with each other so that you have matching expectations.
Only you will know. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Or, I might be in class. Read our FAQ s. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. I knew that when I met him. Or the links, in that first vision one.
But actions speak louder than words. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. Thanks for the help.