And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. What goes on in those sacred temples.




Are they a functioning member in society. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. It has hit me that this relationship is a double standard wherein since we are not married yet, he is not obligated to help me, yet he says once I'm done with my boards and match into residency, we will get married. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. No one knows your situation the way you do. The weekends that we spend together are non stop we are always doing something or going to see friends People in general don't understand how much money it actually takes to just be a doctor. My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine.
I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them.
It's like talking to a wall. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. I might have went into this with different expectations on the whole now i know t simply have NO expectations and cherish every second i get with this new guy im interested in. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work.