I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. Wow, so nice to know others feel just like me.
Sure I have met alot of douche bag doctors who have no morals, think they are 'it' and you know that they feel free to cheat whenever. And no I would not pressure them to convert but as a Latter-day Saint I would pray for them to convert as I do for many people I know and love. With his busy schedule, all of the household chores laundry, dishes, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, bill paying, etc. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. Maybe you will win. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children.
Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. Same boat, if we have plans, he usually ends up. No respect for people's time or relationships. I thought she would grow out of it.
If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. For now, again, don't expect a decade long relationship. So we'll drink the beer I brought over and I give him a back massage and go down on him luckily he does return the favor in terms of physical stuff when he 's less tired and we have amazing sex. My husband's extramarital relationships were well-known in the hospital where he practiced. To be honest; we're not couples matching pretty disparate specialties not conducive to couples matching but we're matching by geography, so I guess we'll have to wait and see if we're still together after the match: Well I guess you can always ask him for a little clarification etc. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. I am really in love with him.
