Great payback for my support during residency and multiple moves. In the end people have to make their own decisions. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. We have been married for nearly 28 years and yes I went to parents evening, open days, Christmas play, sports days alone Because of the long hours, it was hard for me to build a career outside the home, I have built one working from home, but was not easy as I do everything that has to do with our family life even when we go on holiday the only thing Dr know is where we are going. Those will make her think. If I catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks, I'm going to send you back to mother in a card board box.
But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. These are also only the American statistics. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. To just see ourselves as support to our husband's "noble" ambitions. Don't tiptoe around the issue. I know he loves me with all of his heart. I was scared to bring it up and make it seem like a demand or ultimatum, so I think I will approach him in the way you described. But that is a nice gesture, and he will appreciate it.
In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. Love does a lot. Likewise, posts found to direct odious influxes here may be removed.
Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. I had some idea of his life at the time of wedding, but this is tough. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. Maybe you will win. We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times.