If someone isn't dying then it is unlikely to be important. Getting Over a Breakup. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually.
In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. It does kick your butt!. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog. A grandpa sense of humor and occasional clever line from an old movie go a long way. We do have a small baby but he is usually alseep by 7: Should I be worried. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. And we are not bloody married yet.
Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. This also means giving her something specific to do. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man.
I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. A good man is not defined by his religion and a great marriage is not defined by where it takes place. This can be done. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. It made me so very sad.