It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. It is very painful, considering that we have an 8-year old son. Last year i met a wonderful neurosurgeon and within 6 months he told me he was in love with me.



We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. Im not sure whether he isn't ready for it to get any more serious than it is or that he cannot juggle my needs and his duties. You will always be second place. Eternity is a long time. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this.
At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. She is going to dump you. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. And your needs essentially have to be silenced a lot of the times. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that.
And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church. I guess I can understand that because his door needs to be locked from the outside and it would be too soon in our relationship to give me a key. All in good time, my dear. I understand that he us trying to study but I'm doing everything in my power to. Being married to a doctor is no walk in the park.