We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. He did not go to med school right after getting his BA, and we lived through his brief stint in grad school, preparations for MCAT, applying to med school, med school While I was doing my Ph. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. But I am really in love with him, and see him as a wonderful man. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether.
He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. Yes, it is bad.
This also means giving her something specific to do. I thought it was beautiful that they included him in the circle, even though he was not a Priesthood holder. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family.
I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity. But God works in mysterious ways.