There are two ways to go about this. Never seen it happen. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. I am engaged to marry a surgeon next fall. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. Make them feel special. Be open to the wisdom the Spirit will share. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. Home no title About Contact.
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My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. Married to a Surgeon as well. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like.
But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. I grew up believing that when, where, and by what authority I was married were equally important to whom I married. You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. He will always downplay it. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. Yet others are really great human beings. Let her go right now then. Really have to walk in someone's shoes to understand. If we truly love someone, we have to make sacrifices.
I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. I work in a different industry and have worked away from home my fair share. I have this brain trapped after all these years. Long story short, everyone is dead on. When he doesn't have his patience he has his family who seem more and more to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills.