Modest dressing is the best policy here. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. I am married to an ongologist for 16years. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. We also struggle with infertility.
I visit him every month, we managed to go on weekend trips when he's off and he's spend all his vacay time with me and his family. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses.
Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. I was just told that today when I told a friend how lonely it gets being married to a doctor and how I miss having my bestfriend around. If you are dating a Mormon girl, then always wear a good shirt, jeans or pants, and avoid T-shirts with offensive wording or graphics. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. I google searched for support with tears running down my face. But we only really get time together in the summer. This blog is very healthy because it has helped me to feel less resentful about all the time I have to spend alone doing homework and being at functions. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months.
