But I'm still going to show up, even if it means I lose an hour or two of sleep. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. The essay on race and the priesthood claims that Brigham Young prophesied that blacks would receive the priesthood someday, but if you actually follow the link in the footnotes you will see that he was misquoted. I am also going thru the same thing.
I love my husband with my whole soul. My brother is in medical school, and many of my friends are in their clerkship or already doing their residencies. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. I recommend that talk.
On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. You should also be willing to date other people. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Long story short, everyone is dead on.
So if we only have a few hours of time to spend together one night a week, sometimes we will have plans to watch a movie but then things quickly turn into sex and before we know it the night is over. And you know what. Another thing to keep in mind: It's a very long, very hard journey to even get to that point of the MD marathon.