Being married to a doctor is no walk in the park. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Then here for a musical explanation of how those who yearn for a rational faith can resolve doubt through symbolical interpretation.
I suppose it depends on your personality. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. We have been together for over ten years, but only married for 6 months. And yet I have such profound respect for his role in our community.
Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. That settles it for me. Can I add to this extremely old thread. I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there.
Please see above link for full rules. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. The submariner's wives are in a similar situation. Break up with her. If she says yes. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. He doesn't realize that when he spends so much time at the hospital they take this as a sign that he has no home life. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true.