I do not threaten lightly. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. I married my husband 11 years ago, when he was an undergrad student. Jack is right about the demographics. Or the links, in that first vision one. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission.
The ones who already had concerns start questioning. The kids are so involved and I am busy with them but I long for my husband to work less. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far.
Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. She is going to dump you. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it.
Sometimes I complain to my kids and to my husband. It won't be easy. To those asking about pre-med boyfriends, mcat, first year, med school boyfriends: You never accomplish half what you set out to do, and taking practice exams is the most anxiety provoking experience. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. Thank you so much for this blog. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. Life is too short. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times. I used to be religious when I was a kid.