Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family.
He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. Good luck with her, and good life to you. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls.
Its great to hear advice from those who know. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. My two daughters have each chosen a man who is emotionally and physically available, thank goodness. I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world. It's like talking to a wall. Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport. Not the end of the world. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure. The two of us are going on an overnight this weekend.
I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. There are some left but most people don't even realize the thousands of dollars a year that go into keeping your job such as license renewels sometimes for several states if your practice in on a border and has more than one siteCME, malpractice and other insurance, hospital privileges or several if your practice has to cover several surgical sites and facilities in order to stay openetc.
