Please share your dating experience with a doctor or a medical resident. Getting a Date In other languages: Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 85, times. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. Think of it as giving him a prompt, and now he gets to give his thoughts. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character.
If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. Would I like to have him by my side. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother.
Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. This lack of inclusion within the general society makes them socially awkward, especially around men. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. I have rediscovered what I love about the church but choose not to attend or participate. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky.
I have been that crazy lady with four kids alone at everything, school events, home events, church events. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. I came across your blog on a google search and I really enjoyed what you wrote. I would suggest having a list of chores that need to be done, and anyone can check them off.