Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read. We had our first child about a year into the relationship. First, let's start with a short musical introduction on what it's like to be a True Believing Mormon dude. The ex gets it all lol. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can.
Between kids and his work and his being asleep in the living room chair, there is no communication. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. Bottom line pardon the 'pun' is that what spoils being a Doctors wife is accentuated by female patients who try to impress via way of dress and or behaviour Lets face it - being a Doctor is something that many females find attractive My thoughts are with all Doctors wives. I do try to send little texts or call when I have time but not as much as he'd like. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens.
And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. Am I wrong to hope for this. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. My relationship is the same way.
It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. I do not see this going well. We are very blessed. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. It's a fairly new relationship and I don't want to jump to any conclusions. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom.