Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses. In truth if I had a chance to "do it all again" type of thing. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day.
You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. But it also means he has ultimate responsibility for his patients, both ethically and legally. And you will be shocked. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. If I just assume he won't be home to eat dinner with us, it's a happy surprise when he is. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one.
Chances are you can't though. I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night. There are such things as perfect loving families though. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. I expected to find this sisterhood of wives that would comfort, uplift, and laugh with one another. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months.
At the end of the day, nothing I say or do can help him see this. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold. It doesn't help to know that he is terrible at being alone. You and your fiancee might want to get in touch with one to work out the day-to-day issues of an interfaith marriage. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. That is the million dollar question. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa.