Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. I have no support in this and so many of the DW have just accepted this life I just cant ,I want more There are so many days I wish I had a normal life and he had a normal job.
We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies.
We are indeed in two different places. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. But what I discovered surprised me.
I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. This is especially true when you are around others. Learn more about the LDS Church. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple.