I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out.
You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. I won't lie, there are times I have said to myself "what am I doing living like this. Everyone seems to think that I'm lucky to marry a doctor. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's.
You are a good person. Doctors don't have time for anything really they are overworkedand tired all the times. Joanna has written a good answer here. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things. But the lies sting some people. Bet as Joanna has said there are some things you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done with your head, not your heart. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom.