Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. I didn't even believe. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple. So I guess, in this case, all's well that Thanks for posting the update. Then again, I doubt any man who's not in medicine is willing to put up with the sacrifices of being a neurosurgeons husband. I eventually found out that she did not pass the exams and have requested that I don't contact her again.
I felt insane and crazy for being upset and considered just leaving ASAP. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship.
You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. All the other stuffв is crap. He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. My husband started a solo practice and the last few years have been very difficult on our marriage- financially as well as personally. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS.
Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances. And your needs essentially have to be silenced a lot of the times. That means that we are always changing and growing. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions.