While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. Why the Mormon Church is Not a Cult. My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. I feel he thinks we cannot be two masters in this boat and if I am this ambituous we may never have time to have and be a family. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock.
I visit him every month, we managed to go on weekend trips when he's off and he's spend all his vacay time with me and his family. He had a nervous breakdown- panic attack by 10am. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime.
But the lies sting some people. Get used to it. He knows that is a possibility. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. Our first Christmas married I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years. Learning from a young age that any religion will do means that your children almost certainly will ultimately believe that any religion will do. But is it the path that will make you the happiest. I alway understood and supported him so it was my way of being useful in the world, too.
Be open to the wisdom the Spirit will share. I keep the positive thought that it will get better. I say, Follow your heart. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever.