I want to do that though with my husband involved, not be married and be like a single mum. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. Edited 1 time s.
I'm glad he's upfront about the difficulty in dating for him. This is by design. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face.
For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have. Don't fall in love with a married man. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you.
The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. The standard principles of day game apply.