If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. A more unfortunate soul needs him right now as much as I need him. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced.
Just a woman who envies the good life of being a medical doctor's wife. The church is very important to her. But marriages don't last if you have to hold back ugly, sarcastic comments when your partner attends religious services or defends religious beliefs. Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". I've been married to a doctor for 5 years now been together for 11 years and he is in his first year of Anaesthetics. Pay for the first few dates.
Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. Doctors are gift of God but when u marry, family too is important. Perhaps I will have to start one. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. That contributes to status in her culture. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences.
This always seemed terribly wrong to me. I am hopeful and do feel some healing. The church essays that address that linked at www. I'm not marrying to be a single, working mom with money. Controlling Behavior in Relationships.