I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. We don't have any family here and I don't have nannies or any help.
You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. How do you maintain a healthy balance with relationships and work when your partner has a more demanding profession than you. Am I that woman. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably.
Two deployments, two years away and I've reached the point where it is honestly easier when he is away. I can understand his desire to spend time together to reconnect, but right now it really isn't there. Anyway, we've discussed marriage already. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. I pointed out the fact that the woman only goes after doctors I knew he hated women like that he was slow to catch on since she was charming and slick as snot. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. Their perspective gives you an idea of how important your role as wife and mother is to the success of the family of a doctor's wife. She's really attractive, too. I have been married to my doctor husband for 36 years. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy.
Stick around on this sub. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. I wish you the best. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. When he does, he is often quiet and exhausted. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine.