Having to be on your own on holidays is really difficult, and no one understands that "isn't your husband here. I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church.
There are some left but most people don't even realize the thousands of dollars a year that go into keeping your job such as license renewels sometimes for several states if your practice in on a border and has more than one siteCME, malpractice and other insurance, hospital privileges or several if your practice has to cover several surgical sites and facilities in order to stay openetc. He will eventually have more time for you, but right now he is likely giving you all the time that he can, even though it is very little. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. Keep things going and see what happens. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not.
I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. For reference we're both in our mids. But it's the away rotations for months at a time that get really hard. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon.
I'd suggest the essays. I knew a Mormon girl who got rides from her Mormon friends for casual sex dates with men she met on Tinder. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them.