Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. I often feel it's harder than being a single mom because the false hope is just torture. I was so incredibly supportive of him and his career. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. You arent "giving up" anything.
She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. Expect that you will do the majority of parenting and attend school functions alone. We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun. I only know him as the most loving, caring, and sincere man I have ever met. You are a good person and she can see that. I thought I could do it, but the isolation, loneliness, and depression are much worse than I expected.
I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit. That was my experience. They are just really convinced they are right. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons.
I almost left the marriage,3xs. I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. Through this, if you run into unforeseen issues like sold out movies or you cannot get a seat at a restaurant, you will always have a backup plan.