Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality. I had to drive 2 hours alone - and spend the next day alone - bc his partner was out of town - and he could t leave 12 patients on the floor. RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl. I am becoming more lonely now than before. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. It sounds like you have found a good one. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. My partner finishes her training in five years and she has expressed a strong desire to have children then.
If you like living on someone else's coat times, them by all means. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. All the other stuffв is crap. This has all put an incredibly strain on our 2-year marriage we have been together for a total of almsot 8 years. I know that time spent together even when we're both just sleeping is valuable. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids.
Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. It is coming close to the time where I will be preparing for the MCAT and it is going to get a lot more hectic than it has been. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. Although with the change in times, people may not follow these rules as stringently as before, it is still better to be careful so as to not offend anyone, and you may possibly land up with the love of your life. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage.
As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert. We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time. And so, I always have to think about my son when I have to travel or have other work commitments. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day.