Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church.
I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. Yes you are all correct it's lonely and rewarding at the same time But we can continue to make it work.
We started dating the summer before medical shool. No lie he is so very loving and caring understands me feeling,but I must say loving and dating a doctor is really hard. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you.
Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. I'm approaching my 40th birthday and realizing, if anything happens, I will have to plan it myself. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. No one knows your situation the way you do. We have a happy marriage. Nothing less will do. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. She has encouraged me to read LDS.