But he feels I need to stick to one career and be content. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. I think I handle the lonliness a little better than most because I was an only child and like having my alone time.
I am the bitch who doesn't understand anything. But now it also comes out that he resents my past negativity and lack of appreciation for his hard work I didn't want to talk about my issues with him because, as many of you have said, my little problems couldn't compete with what he was dealing with at work. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. I trust him and I highly doubt he's getting "it" from someone else. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. I had thought after so many years I would find a way to deal with the resentment. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. I cooked every meal…… My husband went to work…being a god to his patients.
A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. The thing is I didn't want to marry someone who I'd never see or spend time with. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. My question is, my 30th birthday weekend is coming up and when I mentioned it to him he informed me that an old friend from college's wedding was that weekend and that he wanted to go. Should I marry him.
Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.