As more and more people marry out of their faith, the subject of interfaith marriage will become more and more important. Notify me of new posts via email. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. I worry it will only be worse when the kids grow older. I'd at least insist that at 12 the kids can choose to disaffiliate. We have discussed marriage and kids but I dont want to live a life of lonliness I'm responding to the comment on April 11, - I posted on April 3, Sounds like you are going through my same fears and concerns. But honestly, after putting so much time and money into something, not doing their absolute best and putting time and effort into it just isn't something people are apt to do even if they do like you If you can't be cool with getting what you can get now, I would consider there are plenty of things that might not change setting them loose.
There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. That I will be expected to be a full time single parent most of the time.
My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. However, for me, there have been some perks too. I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right. Order flowers and arrange to have a friend or family member in the area place the flowers for them there.
Or maybe he's like me and would rather just collapse into bed with you when he gets home. I was convinced that if I didn't move to be with him we would never have a shot at a real relationship because his training would take so long - residency. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. Am I a homewrecker. I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - I think it is going to be a long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families. My husband is a medical oncologist who deals primarily with ovarian cancer. We still have great sex 3 or 4 times a week and, no, he doesn't use Viagra, Ciasis, etc.