Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. There is no way this will work out.
The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. I think that Doctors have to be selfish to a degree. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. See to it that she is aware of your plan, so you both can properly dress. OP Have you seen the Brother Jake videos. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college.
She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. But he feels I need to stick to one career and be content. And we are not bloody married yet. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. At least not until they're I reserve the right to refute any teaching that I see as harmful. Trying to help me as much he can and plans his studies around my schedule as I work full time. Anyway, I'm sad and disappointed and I know that it will be my job to keep the marriage together. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I remember when my ex and I had invited friends to our house for a 4th of July dinner and had spent a lot of money and time getting ready.
Pin It on Pinterest. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. I feel I am not appreciated and valued as a wife. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool.